I AM YOUR NUMBER ONE

salam.

suka baca Reader's Digest?salah satu majalah yg dah lama bertahan kat pasaran.banyak info menarik.
di bawah ni adalah petikan dari salah satu rencana RDasia yg saya dapat melalui emel.

 tajuknya...RAHSIA WANITA YANG SUAMI PERLU TAHU.

She wants to be her husband's No. 1 priority.


Men and women get jealous over different things. "A man tends to be jealous of potential sexual partners, while a woman tends to be jealous of time her husband spends away from her, whether it's with drinking buddies or just golfing," explains Charles T. Hill, professor of psychology at Whittier College in California. She wants to feel she is No. 1 in her partner's life. But she knows she's my top priority,a husband may think. Yet if he often works late or spends a lot of time at the gym, she doesn't know it.
One 33-year-old homemaker from Lexington, Ky., says she has to nag her husband to come home from his job as a hotel manager before 8 or 9 p.m. "It makes me feel the kids and I aren't important." Even when he is home, she feels at times as if he is there only physically. One breathtaking fall day, she was outside playing with the children and dog while her husband stayed inside watching TV. "I felt rejected," she recalls.
"Most married couples only spend about 20 minutes a week interacting face to face, particularly once there are children," notes Georgia Witkin, director of the Stress Program at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in Manhattan. "Meanwhile, happy couples who've been married 25 years find it's not just quality time that does the trick, it's quantity."


kepada pembaca wanita...adakah anda rasa seperti apa yg tertulis kat atas tu?kalau ya...sila bgtau suami masing2.
kalau dia buat2 tak faham,pandai2lah explain...penting ni untuk kesejahteraan rumahtangga.kalau kita dok pendam ja lama2 nanti dah tak happy.
baikla terus terang dari awal.
tapi janganlah sampai bergaduh.

suami2 pun sama2lah jugak...kalau masa bercinta boleh spent time..."YOU ARE MY NUMBER ONE" takkan lepas kawen & ada anak dah jadi "YOU ARE MY NUMBER TEN"...
kalau isteri still nombor one...please tunjukkan & lafazkan....org perempuan suka macam tu....dilayan2.jangan simpan dalam hati @ dalam diari ja.tak bagi hadiah pun takpa...just be there....body & mind.

honestly...saya juga kadang2 rasa macam tu...terdetik jugak dia lebihkan kawan esp bila SU sibuk dgn aktiviti kelab.kalau dekat2 nak event lagilah...dgn balik lewatnya.dahtu bila kat rumah pun tak dan nak sembang...asyikla ngadap kerja.terpaksalah mem dia ni mengalah sekejap utk member2 dia.
tapi kalau dah event kerap sgt cemana????
p/s:sedang bodek SU berhenti jadi S/U kelab motor..hehehe

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